When you crticize don’t criticize their persons but rather the the things they’ve said, or the things they’ve done for if you criticize them then your disagreements with them has blinded you and you no longer are able to love them.

Criticize a person because you want the best for them not because they are different. Criticize when critisizm is needed, when offering your opinion might change a course of action, offer a new solution to a problem or a better view of things, other than that please don’t bother!

Before you say anything ask yourself why do you want to citicize? and if you were in their shoes, how would you see this? is it positive? do you see the whole picture and know enough to actually disagree and point out fingers?

If yes then go ahead, criticize with love